Never play the friend card unless its your last resort! I swear to god, there is no such thing as a guy that wants to be friends with a girl. Moreover, playing this card will only put up more walls between you and your prospect. The only exception is when you have history with this person. This explains all of the “ugly” guys with really beautiful girls. Instead, one should be “friendly” , but still show interest. For learning purposes, lets call this the “friendly card”.How many guy’s have invested time in a prospect to only later find out that they had a boyfriend, or husband? If this has happend to you then your confused about the situation. In reality, you kept the prospect interested enough to want to give you a chance in the future. Learning this skill is very difficult becuase it is done blindly. Women will only play this card if you are a better prospect then their own. How do you know if your better? Listen, and ask questions that deal with answers that will give clues. For example, say something like your beautiful and a girl like you must have a boyfriend. If she changes the subject than your playing the game. Believe me, women don’t have a problem in telling you that she has a man or at least lie about it if she’s not interested. In the end, you have two cards to play. If you know that you’ll see her again than give her your number. Most likely she wont call, but it is a great ice breaker for future refrences. If you know that you proablly wont see her again then go for it. If your successful then you have excuted the “friendly card” perfectly. Remember, do not play the friend card. There is enough women out their for everyone. Being greedy will get you no where. Boyfriends and husbands will hate you, especially guys that are playing the same game as you. Be the guy that everyone loves.
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